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This reasoning le to a counterintuitive hypothesis: People who highly value happiness Unhappy seeking unhappy happiness Discreet sex New Haven Connecticut that are difficult to obtain, leading them to feel disappointed about how they feel, paradoxically decreasing their happiness the more they want it. Measures Valuing happiness Various measures exist that assess values and processes related to happiness, including values regarding specific emotions in specific situations Matsumoto, ; Timmers et al.

They believe distraction from their present circumstance is a shortcut to happiness.

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Psychology, Medicine Emotion Happiness is a key ingredient of well-being. People can be unkind, and jobs can be tedious.

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I learned to forgive myself for mistakes, and learned to embrace my imperfections. Row 6: Interaction between valuing happiness and stress level.

And believing there is another person out there that can bring complete happiness into your life is to embark on a journey with no Unhappy seeking unhappy and often with disastrous outcomes. This factor was followed by one factor with an Eigenvalue of 1. We found that teens Turriff women seeking anal sex spent more time seeing their friends in person, exercising, playing sports, attending religious services, reading or even doing homework were happier.

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However, none of these scales Unhappy seeking unhappy the construct we set out to examine: valuing happiness to a potentially extreme degree. There are two important ways in which this metaphor fails.

This article was originally published on The Conversation. In relatively negative situations people can attribute their unhappiness to the circumstances cf.

The publisher's final edited version of this article is available at emotion this article has been corrected. can seeking happiness make people unhappy? [corrected] paradoxical effects of valuing happiness.

But relationship, by its very nature, requires humility and selflessness. But people tend to vastly underrate the power of personal habits that are within our direct control.

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At first glance, valuing happiness should lead to positive outcomes, because it is assumed that the more one values happiness the happier one will be.

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In accepting things just the way they are. So I am not the person to suggest you to sit down, do nothing, and passively wait for happiness to appear in your life.

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Indeed, we are all likely in denial of at least a few habits that actively increase our unhappiness.

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